My boyfriend always ‘forgets’ his credit card when we eat out, so I have to foot the bill

The woman is absolutely *not in the wrong* for refusing to pay again. It seems like her boyfriend’s repeated “forgetfulness” is a deliberate tactic to make her foot the bill for their outings. This behavior goes beyond an innocent mistake—it’s manipulative, and it shows a lack of respect for her boundaries and finances.

Her decision to leave when faced with yet another “forgotten wallet” was a strong move that set a clear boundary. Reddit commenters were spot on: this behavior signals deeper issues, and staying with someone who repeatedly uses her financially and emotionally could lead to bigger problems down the line.

Ultimately, relationships thrive on trust, respect, and fairness. This situation lacked all three, and she’s right to question whether this relationship is worth continuing. **What do you think? Would you have handled it differently?**